04-30-2010, 06:36 PM
(04-26-2010, 03:36 PM)Elektrisk Wrote: Everyone masturbates.. don't freak out -__- I have never heard of anyone stopping once they start unless they have therapy. It's natural.. ever heard of blue balls? That's what you'll get if you refuse yourself the release of masturbation. Just do it -_-
This is one of the biggest lies passed around. Blue balls DOES happen, but it doesn't always happen, and it's not SUPPOSED to happen. What happens when you don't fap is your body secrets it at night when you sleep automatically. Just wake up int he morning and take a shower, whatever no harm done. If you get blue balls go see a doctor, because that's not supposed to happen. That happens when your body is not properly disposing of the sperm.
As a Christian, I don't fap, haven't in years. I've never had any problem with blue balls. I know the urge you're talking about. And furthermore, I know what you mean by being "controlled" by it. One minute you don't want anything to do with it, the next you can't live without it. It's a horrible and strong battle to fight.
Blue balls is the biggest excuse and the biggest lie passed around to the younger generation about sex education. You don't HAVE to masturbate, and you don't HAVE to let your hormones control you and make you out to be some perverted pig of a guy. If you want a girl, be a man and show her dignity as she is a woman, she's not a sex toy. I do know some of you are gay however. My advice there would be (I don't support gay relationships personally, but I don't judge those who do) the same, treat people with dignity as PEOPLE and don't USE them as sex objects.
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