My dad..

[jhfire]

Sorry for not replying.

Nothing changed, still the same.

And that dude is in no way capable of being alone with a child, let stand a 4 year old.

This does suck major ass. However, I don't feel sorry for you. Your "dad" may be a dick, but have you ever talked to him? Have you ever asked him how it was and why he is not doing what he should be doing? If not, you should just sit down and talk with the man. He might have something else going wrong, that you can't see. Good luck.