My Story with the female-types

[majordave]

That I am.

@ elektrisk, see?

Anyway, @majordave:
Thanks for the advice and whatnot; one of the things that I'm worried about is well...she's moving at the end of the year. I think that speaks for itself.

What that says is she was probably telling the truth about not wanting to get in a relationship with you, because she felt she wanted to gain some experience. That doesn't necessarily mean with other guys, but rather she feels the need to experience life on her own, and isn't ready for a serious relationship.

Updates, updates: nothing has changed as far as my mind has gone. I've gotten a lot of headaches/stomach-aches that the GP said was related to depression and stress, and forwarded me to a Psychologist. I don't know if that's helping yet, it's a fairly recent event.
She found someone else, it hurts, enough said.

Well, for all you know, she might just be dating him for someone to date, without any emotional attachment that would cause pain on either side if it ended tomorrow. I had quite of those. During that year I wouldn't date my husband, I dated almost any and every one else. They came and went, and if they stopped calling, I hardly noticed because I hardly acknowledged their existence. No harm, no foul.

I never dated anyone seriously in high school because I knew that when I turned 18, I leaving to travel the world--come hell or high water! I was afraid if I entered into a serious relationship, I'd feel so guilty about wanting to leave, that I might end up staying and knew I'd then regret it for the rest of my life.

So I avoided guys I really liked, and any guy I dated who started getting serious, I immediately ended it, making a clean break. It wasn't because I no longer liked him or wouldn't have liked to have continued dating or remain friends. I did it to help him get over it faster and move on with his life. This may have caused more pain initially, but hopefully, for a much shorter period of time.

I don't know this girl, but it sounds possible she might be doing the same.

Regardless, I am sorry to hear you are still suffering and hope you feel better soon.

Take care, and I wish you the best of luck!