04-05-2010, 05:11 PM
From girlfriends/boyfriends, to demotions/lay offs, it's all there. Getting over things that aren't exactly the best things is apart of life.
"crap happens" is a saying that goes around multiple times. It's right. Life has it's ups and it's downs. The key to getting over things, is believing in yourself, and not staying on the same subject.
If your girlfriend/boyfriend has broken up with you, and you're absolutely heart broken, well, here's a tip. Think about other people. Replacement dating could work, maybe to make the other jealous or just to get over it. However, think about that other person while you're at it. Move on, hang out with friends, and try to talk to that person as a friend, nothing more.
If you're dealing with a job lay off, well, easy enough.. get on the spot right away. Instead of being upset for days, start looking and applying right away. Try to make yourself look like you're the best one for the job when applying.
The tip to this all is just to stay positive about yourself and talk to your friends or family to make yourself feel better about yourself and move on from tough times.
"crap happens" is a saying that goes around multiple times. It's right. Life has it's ups and it's downs. The key to getting over things, is believing in yourself, and not staying on the same subject.
If your girlfriend/boyfriend has broken up with you, and you're absolutely heart broken, well, here's a tip. Think about other people. Replacement dating could work, maybe to make the other jealous or just to get over it. However, think about that other person while you're at it. Move on, hang out with friends, and try to talk to that person as a friend, nothing more.
If you're dealing with a job lay off, well, easy enough.. get on the spot right away. Instead of being upset for days, start looking and applying right away. Try to make yourself look like you're the best one for the job when applying.
The tip to this all is just to stay positive about yourself and talk to your friends or family to make yourself feel better about yourself and move on from tough times.