Girls problems

[Gaijin]

Don't look so hard. The right one will come along in the strangest of places. I met my wife in a grocery store in the fruit section.

LOL I can beat that, it was a sunny day and I was crossing the road..... on my awsome bike and was looking back to see where my friends was, eyes back to front I see her in front of me and I'm about to hit her....
Doing a stunt I made it to avoid that but slammed into a trashcan and scratched my whole right side of the body and arm.... Then yeah she came to ask if I'm ok and ..... the rest is history...

Back to the topic, I would first say... Keep out of dating sites, most of people there are just not for a relationship and as you said your self just accepting everyones invites.

You don't need to go into a club to find a girl, just go out with some friends and when you see a group of girls without any guys, step up and start a talk.
Best thing is when your chilling at a café, invite them to your table and don't be afraid that they will say NO, thanks!
Most will say that most of the time ;) , but don't give up it's their way ...
Sometimes they just want to see if you give up.

All in all, go out somewhere, walking down the street and having fun... make you noticable ;) and then setp up to those that you like.

There were moments where girls were passing by me and telling me "Hey that'S a nice hair!" (I had long hair).... and they've meant it as fun but it ended as a funny group date ....

JUST GO OUT AND HAVE FUN the rest come by itself!