Having Trouble getting People to sign up + stay active

[lil PopTart kid]

No, do not use Flash. It's horrible for SEO and for people that don't have good internet connection. Using flash is pretty much the worst advise someone can give to a site that's starting up.

The theme is not sloppy at all. Sure there are a few aesthetic things that should be taken care of, such as making the on/off/offlock images at the bottom horizontal instead of vertical, but, overall the theme is fine. And the domain is fine. It's dedicated to HARDSTYLE music and the dancing that goes along with it. Not just all dancing.

Although, I personally would change the theme to something that if a visitor went to it, they would think hardstyle. The theme right now says something else.

1. Ok maby not flash but javascript or some action that makes the site a little more active modernized and 21st century.

2.Its not a sloppy theme over all there are just some points that could use cleaning up its the little things that people notice.

3.I couldn't agree more thats why i recomened the colors black gray then an accent like purple that gives it that hardcore underground street feeling.

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Here use this banner and center it at the top
People will be able to see what it is do you see how big the banner is one Support forums and Hack forums.

Also make the forum wider it would help so much.