Problem with sexual anxiety.

[Elektrisk]

Elektrisk,
I would love to help you but I see a problem at first:
I think your anxiety comes from the fear of meeting a rapist/murderer.
Secondly:
Being gay is not a common or normal act; open gayness has only developed in the last few decades. So that may be a cause for nervousness. I personally do not believe in homosexuality (the correct term); but I am not going to let that deter me from helping you. Good luck to you mate.

I don't think the whole 'being gay' thing has much to do with it. I have accepted that I am gay and realise that it's a lot better now than it was when my parents were growing up (they aren't gay, just so you know). I accept that many people do not accept it for whatever reason, and it's their right to choose not to accept it, just as it is my right TO accept it. So, I don't think that's a problem, really.

Perhaps the rapist/murderer thing is the problem :|

Err this will sound weird, but after the second time, it takes longer...

I don't understand what you mean.
I've had sexual encounters many times, if that is what you are referring to. Are you talking about getting off once, then twice, then after that? Please elaborate.