What I mean is that you can kill the nervous feeling by choosing a place you feel better and you talk to him....
Choosing a right place for a "date" is helping much when, let's say going on a blind date. You're nervous in the beginning but when you're there and actually sit down and idk drink somethin with him, you get much better feeling and mostly the nervous feeling is gone.
All you need to do is try to not cancel it the next time, ofcourse there is still a possibility of all those things to happen.... but it drops down to a very low chance... As said I never would think of getting raped... it's Girl I would meet.....
But it's about the feeling you have before the actual meeting....
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Sorry I need to go to work now, I'm already late.... But I'll try to get back at this subject asap.....
Choosing a right place for a "date" is helping much when, let's say going on a blind date. You're nervous in the beginning but when you're there and actually sit down and idk drink somethin with him, you get much better feeling and mostly the nervous feeling is gone.
All you need to do is try to not cancel it the next time, ofcourse there is still a possibility of all those things to happen.... but it drops down to a very low chance... As said I never would think of getting raped... it's Girl I would meet.....
But it's about the feeling you have before the actual meeting....
edit:
Sorry I need to go to work now, I'm already late.... But I'll try to get back at this subject asap.....