Hello.
Well, I'm 15 and gay, and often I'll meet guys who are a few years older than me on MySpace or Facebook that I'd like to 'mess around with'. Anyway, I always feel like meeting up with them and such, but when we finally get around to setting a time, place, or date, I get really nervous, usually to the point where I make up an excuse and cancel. What's up with this? Is it because I usually don't know the guy, because I don't have any emotional attachment with him, or because I'm very susceptible to being raped/beaten up (I'm only like 5'10 and 135lbs)? I'm thinking it's a combination of all of the aforementioned. Is there anything I can do besides this, besides stopping it altogether? I am comfortable with my package and body, so it's not like I'm afraid of embarrassment. I'm thinking if the guys whom I intended to 'mess with' were my age (14-17 or so), then I wouldn't be as nervous. But, that's not a very likely scenario for where I live.
Well, I'm 15 and gay, and often I'll meet guys who are a few years older than me on MySpace or Facebook that I'd like to 'mess around with'. Anyway, I always feel like meeting up with them and such, but when we finally get around to setting a time, place, or date, I get really nervous, usually to the point where I make up an excuse and cancel. What's up with this? Is it because I usually don't know the guy, because I don't have any emotional attachment with him, or because I'm very susceptible to being raped/beaten up (I'm only like 5'10 and 135lbs)? I'm thinking it's a combination of all of the aforementioned. Is there anything I can do besides this, besides stopping it altogether? I am comfortable with my package and body, so it's not like I'm afraid of embarrassment. I'm thinking if the guys whom I intended to 'mess with' were my age (14-17 or so), then I wouldn't be as nervous. But, that's not a very likely scenario for where I live.