04-16-2014, 04:27 AM
(This post was last modified: 04-16-2014, 04:29 AM by WalkingonStarlight.)
Hi Callum, the site won't actually let me PM you until I have ten posts so I'm just going to reply here. Thanks so much for the reply as well.
I do like the sound of perhaps meeting them for coffee to talk or what not. I just feel it would be difficult without an ice breaker and both of them blocked me two years ago on Facebook even after I apologized to her in a message for not accepting her friend requests, I admitted I thought she didn't really like me and that I didn't think of her as a bad person. It was actually even very strange to have to do that to someone I had never met.
My manipulative friend is often with them and her and his girlfriend snigger and laugh at me. So I feel like I have a mountain to climb. I believe my old friend has probably told them lies like I was trying to steal him (that's probably the only way she could get her on her side after all). Which frustrates me because it's not in my nature.
I'm just a bit confused as to which one to approach first or whether or not I should do it in person. I'm thinking the eye to eye approach would be better. At least that way things won't be interpreted differently as it was before.
I do like the sound of perhaps meeting them for coffee to talk or what not. I just feel it would be difficult without an ice breaker and both of them blocked me two years ago on Facebook even after I apologized to her in a message for not accepting her friend requests, I admitted I thought she didn't really like me and that I didn't think of her as a bad person. It was actually even very strange to have to do that to someone I had never met.
My manipulative friend is often with them and her and his girlfriend snigger and laugh at me. So I feel like I have a mountain to climb. I believe my old friend has probably told them lies like I was trying to steal him (that's probably the only way she could get her on her side after all). Which frustrates me because it's not in my nature.
I'm just a bit confused as to which one to approach first or whether or not I should do it in person. I'm thinking the eye to eye approach would be better. At least that way things won't be interpreted differently as it was before.