04-15-2014, 05:07 PM
Hi WalkingOnStarlight.
Thank you for asking for help today. I've read over this post (since you've made two, possibly by refreshing the page twice or more) however, I've seen what you've put. Regarding the Facebook issue. I've had a Girlfriend in the similar issue as you and I can understand what problem your encountering. I'd suggest having a meal with her or inviting her out to explain the issues and explain how you feel about the situation. I guarantee you if you tell her about it, she'l feel much better and less threatened.
Your friend who turned out to be an nasty person - don't worry about her. She's obviously someone you shouldn't care about. I can tell that you must be very good lucking and that's possibly why she's so mad. You have got somewhere in life and nobody can fail life in my opinion unless you do drugs and ruined your foundation education (which my colleague did, and he's failed) But you shouldn't be worried about this.
About your anime conferences. I believe that you are a strong person and can tell by what you are typing. You shouldn't be put off by this. Maybe it's not a bad thing? He could be starting false rumors but I wouldn't worry about it. Showing no emotion about it would normally resolve the issue.
If you wish to reconnect with a person like this, do something like I suggested before and ask them out for a meal, invite them over for a quiet evening or coffee. You can always resolve issues, if he chooses not to respond positively then you know he's past the stage of recovery. Remember, that's not your problem - that's his.
Emotional bullying is wrong and should not tolerated in society. You can never change an stuck up person like that. I've got the same issue and my way of dealing with it is not responding. They will soon become bored.
I hope this has helped you and I'm more than happy to provide personal support to you via Skype or such at any time. PM me if you've got any more issues.
Regards,
Callum.
Thank you for asking for help today. I've read over this post (since you've made two, possibly by refreshing the page twice or more) however, I've seen what you've put. Regarding the Facebook issue. I've had a Girlfriend in the similar issue as you and I can understand what problem your encountering. I'd suggest having a meal with her or inviting her out to explain the issues and explain how you feel about the situation. I guarantee you if you tell her about it, she'l feel much better and less threatened.
Your friend who turned out to be an nasty person - don't worry about her. She's obviously someone you shouldn't care about. I can tell that you must be very good lucking and that's possibly why she's so mad. You have got somewhere in life and nobody can fail life in my opinion unless you do drugs and ruined your foundation education (which my colleague did, and he's failed) But you shouldn't be worried about this.
About your anime conferences. I believe that you are a strong person and can tell by what you are typing. You shouldn't be put off by this. Maybe it's not a bad thing? He could be starting false rumors but I wouldn't worry about it. Showing no emotion about it would normally resolve the issue.
If you wish to reconnect with a person like this, do something like I suggested before and ask them out for a meal, invite them over for a quiet evening or coffee. You can always resolve issues, if he chooses not to respond positively then you know he's past the stage of recovery. Remember, that's not your problem - that's his.
Emotional bullying is wrong and should not tolerated in society. You can never change an stuck up person like that. I've got the same issue and my way of dealing with it is not responding. They will soon become bored.
I hope this has helped you and I'm more than happy to provide personal support to you via Skype or such at any time. PM me if you've got any more issues.
Regards,
Callum.