09-01-2013, 05:27 PM
The advice already given by Phisher is pretty good and I'd like to second it.
The only thing I'll add is that it's all about time. Time is probably your worst enemy right now because when something like this happens every minute seems like an hour. I remember after my big break up, I'd look at the clock thinking the day was half over and it would be a little after noon. It was horrible. I felt like that for days. Then after about a week or so things turned around.
As Phisher said, go out with friends and do things that keep your mind off of the relationship. Find ways to kill time. Mind numbing games like Angry Birds or Cut the Rope are excellent for times like this. As time goes on, you will begin to feel better. Just get there any way you can.
The only thing I'll add is that it's all about time. Time is probably your worst enemy right now because when something like this happens every minute seems like an hour. I remember after my big break up, I'd look at the clock thinking the day was half over and it would be a little after noon. It was horrible. I felt like that for days. Then after about a week or so things turned around.
As Phisher said, go out with friends and do things that keep your mind off of the relationship. Find ways to kill time. Mind numbing games like Angry Birds or Cut the Rope are excellent for times like this. As time goes on, you will begin to feel better. Just get there any way you can.