06-05-2013, 09:02 AM
Yes Ive read your whole post, no tldr.
That is good that you have gotten her out of harming herself with needles. It is not at all healthy to do something like that. I couldnt even fathom what I would do if I heard of my friends doing it. I would tell you that worrying is only going to hurt yourself but theres nothing I can say there because you cant help it, and thats completely understandable. Just make sure she doesnt do that anymore, and possibly help her with any problems that may have caused it.
Anyways, you mentioned that Q liked to draw to earn fame. While its not the best thing that that is the reason that she is drawing, an obsession cant hurt. To relate, I have an obsessive personality over things, and I can go in phases. I like to play or do one thing and be the best at it for a while, then move to another, and keep going. Its just a release, or an outlet, something to enjoy over the internet. Though, if ts at the point where its a problem for her and it was actually hurting her, then its understandable.
From what I could tell it seems as if B was a better friend to Q, maybe because they have known each other longer, maybe other circumstances, etc. Dont take what she said personally, I could think in my head scenarios where if I had to keep one friend over the other I would choose one, but I need them both as friends both the same. She, possibly and from what I could see, plays more with B on games because they do different things maybe? Perhaps its a different kind of gameplay. Maybe you got to her at a bad time. After playing one game for a few hours, I sometimes would have friends who want me to get on and play another but Im just worn out.
Maybe you could become friends with B too? So you dont end up resenting B in the future. Everyone being friends with one another can help your relationship with Q, and you would gain another friend. Just a suggestion from what Ive read, but I understand if you cannot do so. Try not to force it
That is good that you have gotten her out of harming herself with needles. It is not at all healthy to do something like that. I couldnt even fathom what I would do if I heard of my friends doing it. I would tell you that worrying is only going to hurt yourself but theres nothing I can say there because you cant help it, and thats completely understandable. Just make sure she doesnt do that anymore, and possibly help her with any problems that may have caused it.
Anyways, you mentioned that Q liked to draw to earn fame. While its not the best thing that that is the reason that she is drawing, an obsession cant hurt. To relate, I have an obsessive personality over things, and I can go in phases. I like to play or do one thing and be the best at it for a while, then move to another, and keep going. Its just a release, or an outlet, something to enjoy over the internet. Though, if ts at the point where its a problem for her and it was actually hurting her, then its understandable.
From what I could tell it seems as if B was a better friend to Q, maybe because they have known each other longer, maybe other circumstances, etc. Dont take what she said personally, I could think in my head scenarios where if I had to keep one friend over the other I would choose one, but I need them both as friends both the same. She, possibly and from what I could see, plays more with B on games because they do different things maybe? Perhaps its a different kind of gameplay. Maybe you got to her at a bad time. After playing one game for a few hours, I sometimes would have friends who want me to get on and play another but Im just worn out.
Maybe you could become friends with B too? So you dont end up resenting B in the future. Everyone being friends with one another can help your relationship with Q, and you would gain another friend. Just a suggestion from what Ive read, but I understand if you cannot do so. Try not to force it