02-14-2013, 10:49 PM
I read everything and all I can really say is I understand you completely.
I'm sorry about all of your health issues, we all get one life to live so we just have to take what we are given and keep our heads up.
I'm a firm believer that everything happens for a reason so just try to remember that when things turn south.
On the guy topic, i'm the 22 year old on the other end that you think is playing and looking for fun, you are right. Most guys my age like myself don't think women 5+ years older are generally interested in dating us for more than physical things so that's all we look for and expect. Try to make guys wait until you've at least hungout with them 5 times.
If they still want to hangout after not getting any and are still persistent, they should be somewhat serious. It also could be how you act afterwards. Never become clingy but don't act like they're just another dick. Be yourself and one day, the right guy will come along. I'm sure of it. Hope this lifts you up a little and makes your day better.
I'm sorry about all of your health issues, we all get one life to live so we just have to take what we are given and keep our heads up.
I'm a firm believer that everything happens for a reason so just try to remember that when things turn south.
On the guy topic, i'm the 22 year old on the other end that you think is playing and looking for fun, you are right. Most guys my age like myself don't think women 5+ years older are generally interested in dating us for more than physical things so that's all we look for and expect. Try to make guys wait until you've at least hungout with them 5 times.
If they still want to hangout after not getting any and are still persistent, they should be somewhat serious. It also could be how you act afterwards. Never become clingy but don't act like they're just another dick. Be yourself and one day, the right guy will come along. I'm sure of it. Hope this lifts you up a little and makes your day better.