12-02-2012, 09:42 PM
(This post was last modified: 12-02-2012, 09:46 PM by NeedSomeHelp.)
(12-02-2012, 08:24 PM)Zammyslave Wrote: You seem to be doing pretty good in my opinion.
What is it you need help with?
She is pretty busy but seems interested enough. You aren't 13 so it's not much of a parent's choice whether or not you guys can hang out. I think you're headed in the right direction and will probably after a few dates she could become your girlfriend. Now, how far away is the university she's going to? That can become a problem seeing as distance relationships GENERALLY (not always) don't work out.
I'd say enjoy your time with her while you can but don't be too pushy like "The Hobbit came out, common! Lets go! Now now now!". Just remind her once that's you planned to watch it with here and it's good.
Thank you.
Well what I'm a bit worried about is that her parents may be concerned about having her going out with a guy. I guess today she was just busy, but if she ever says no to me (or any girl) I'll probably be wondering if she is actually interested or not. :$
I'm also worried about the fact that I may not seem very desirable.... I guess she seems like she likes me already....
...but she takes piano lessons (can teach), 3rd dan black in taekwando + black in karate, takes art lessons and is great, and has an average that's about 10% higher than mine in school lol (mid 80s for me....). So damn successful heh, and I don't feel very successful compared to that. :/
She's also been teasing me that I'm an awkward dancer from when I was dancing with her!! I haven't practiced much lol!
I just hope her parents don't get all pissed off, and that she actually likes me as much as I think she does. :$
TL;DR:
Do I just wait for the Hobbit and take it slow, I guess? I don't want to just jump into a relationship, I don't even know what she wants because she'd never tell me. If I did end up being a boyfriend I hope I wouldn't be sub-par.
Oh, and the university she's going to is about a 2 hour drive away, give or take 10 minutes.
(12-02-2012, 08:24 PM)Zammyslave Wrote: I'd say enjoy your time with her while you can but don't be too pushy like "The Hobbit came out, common! Lets go! Now now now!". Just remind her once that's you planned to watch it with here and it's good.
Okay.