10-24-2012, 03:49 PM
Hi Wheels so i read your story.
It's a pretty hard situation to be in and there is really no reason anyone should tell you otherwise. However i don't believe it is impossible for you to move forward and be happy. There are a lot of events that take place in our lives and it's ones like these that first of all show you who your real friends are and secondly this shows you what you are capable of.
I realize it's gotta be hard to move forward and see the light but the thing is you gotta realize that you do have the power to move forward and be a better person. You said it yourself you are ashamed of what you did that alone shows that it's not something you want to do again and you want to be a better person. So learn from that , realize your faults and work towards never doing them again. Also a man who treats you like that? Is that really a big loss? I was cheated on by the only girl I have ever loved. When i found out that is not how i responded ... because frankly while yeah i was pissed... i have more respect for myself and more respect for others. Right now in the heat people may be siding with him while he whines like a baby and tells it to everyone but if you keep your chin up and be happy... it's really the best thing you could do because then people will realize.. there's no reason to harass you or treat you like crap. They want you to give up don't give them that satisfaction you're better than that.
If it means anything at all i know i don't personally know you but from the way you've said things i believe you are stronger than you think. Don't give up keep on keeping on. And please dont drink too much you dont need it and it will only make things harder to move on from.
It's a pretty hard situation to be in and there is really no reason anyone should tell you otherwise. However i don't believe it is impossible for you to move forward and be happy. There are a lot of events that take place in our lives and it's ones like these that first of all show you who your real friends are and secondly this shows you what you are capable of.
I realize it's gotta be hard to move forward and see the light but the thing is you gotta realize that you do have the power to move forward and be a better person. You said it yourself you are ashamed of what you did that alone shows that it's not something you want to do again and you want to be a better person. So learn from that , realize your faults and work towards never doing them again. Also a man who treats you like that? Is that really a big loss? I was cheated on by the only girl I have ever loved. When i found out that is not how i responded ... because frankly while yeah i was pissed... i have more respect for myself and more respect for others. Right now in the heat people may be siding with him while he whines like a baby and tells it to everyone but if you keep your chin up and be happy... it's really the best thing you could do because then people will realize.. there's no reason to harass you or treat you like crap. They want you to give up don't give them that satisfaction you're better than that.
If it means anything at all i know i don't personally know you but from the way you've said things i believe you are stronger than you think. Don't give up keep on keeping on. And please dont drink too much you dont need it and it will only make things harder to move on from.