10-19-2012, 01:16 PM
Well, there are definitely loads of cases similar to this with many families.
I'd suggest that you suck it up until you're 18 & when you've saved up enough money & can drive your car, just start renting a place whilst you're staying with your parents & when they try to control you again, leave & go make your own life.
Try sitting down with them, tell them that they cannot control your life, tell them that you want to make your own choices & that you want your own lifestyle, not theirs.
Just say that it's not for you & you want your own life. If they tell you no, then walk out, drive away & don't talk to them for a week or so. They will begin to miss you & think about what you said & should eventually come around.
You need to show them how serious your feelings are. Just make sure you don't do anything stupid, where will that get you, huh?
Good luck Sir!
I'd suggest that you suck it up until you're 18 & when you've saved up enough money & can drive your car, just start renting a place whilst you're staying with your parents & when they try to control you again, leave & go make your own life.
Try sitting down with them, tell them that they cannot control your life, tell them that you want to make your own choices & that you want your own lifestyle, not theirs.
Just say that it's not for you & you want your own life. If they tell you no, then walk out, drive away & don't talk to them for a week or so. They will begin to miss you & think about what you said & should eventually come around.
You need to show them how serious your feelings are. Just make sure you don't do anything stupid, where will that get you, huh?
Good luck Sir!