09-23-2012, 06:57 PM
Currently a 20-year-old male virgin. How do I know whether my desire to have a girlfriend and someone to be with is legitimate or it's just my way of saying I want to have sex?
The reason I ask is because since I was a little kid, the more and more I grew up and hadn't had sex yet, the day/idea of having sex with my first became more and more special to me. So I had made it a personal principle to have sex with my first girlfriend just to leave myself some self-respect and dignity. But now since I haven't had sex yet at this age, my sexual desires and emotions have meshed together.
How do I find out what it is that I really want? Or if it's both?
The reason I ask is because since I was a little kid, the more and more I grew up and hadn't had sex yet, the day/idea of having sex with my first became more and more special to me. So I had made it a personal principle to have sex with my first girlfriend just to leave myself some self-respect and dignity. But now since I haven't had sex yet at this age, my sexual desires and emotions have meshed together.
How do I find out what it is that I really want? Or if it's both?