07-23-2012, 04:03 PM
(This post was last modified: 07-23-2012, 04:05 PM by EagerToLearn.)
I'm a 19-year-old male, about to be 20 in August. I haven't had sex or even a long-term relationship yet. I'd like to share something rather delicate with you all in hopes of yearning some constructive feedback.
Within my group of friends, for which we are both guys and girls, there is a girl that is a bit over 22 years old. She broke up with her boyfriend about a couple of months ago. At about the same time, we all met up for coffee and when I had gone to the washroom, apparently everyone had brought up the topic of her dating me to which I was explained she replied "He's cute but I just got out of a relationship."
When I found out about this, I was completely flattered and felt very good because she is a good-looking girl and very smart which is what attracts me most to women.
Now, the problem is that before this night had taken place, I had treated and viewed her just as I did all my girl friends in our group of friends but after finding out that she finds me good looking, I started liking her more. Having said that, I'm not sure if that means I really like her or I'm simply flattered by her compliment.
Within my group of friends, for which we are both guys and girls, there is a girl that is a bit over 22 years old. She broke up with her boyfriend about a couple of months ago. At about the same time, we all met up for coffee and when I had gone to the washroom, apparently everyone had brought up the topic of her dating me to which I was explained she replied "He's cute but I just got out of a relationship."
When I found out about this, I was completely flattered and felt very good because she is a good-looking girl and very smart which is what attracts me most to women.
Now, the problem is that before this night had taken place, I had treated and viewed her just as I did all my girl friends in our group of friends but after finding out that she finds me good looking, I started liking her more. Having said that, I'm not sure if that means I really like her or I'm simply flattered by her compliment.