06-11-2012, 02:08 PM
(This post was last modified: 06-11-2012, 03:38 PM by Omniscient.)
freakin needs to be changed to f*ckin and crap needs to be changed to sh*t
So where to begin. My husband and I have been in very stressful situation for a little over a month now. We have recieved custody of my stepson on top of our three children we have together. So now we have four children four and under. Within the past month our relationship has gone from great, he was my best friend, we could talk about anything, laugh and joke around, play video games after the kids were in bed and talk shiit, you know just have a good time and enjoy each other. To him calling me lazy, a piece of crap, telling me I'm freakin worthless. Telling me to just get the fudge out then. And even as far as last night when he said, "you are freakin crazy if you think i even freakin care about you anymore." All this coming from someone I thought would never do that to me. He talked to me like this last week, but later apologized and promised me he wouldn't again, just to turn around and do it again. I feel betrayed, pissed off, hurt, and stupid. I mean why would I have been so stupid to believe that he really meant it, because obviously he didn't if he just turned around and did it alll over again. Seriously, who treats thier wife like that, let alone does it in front of thier children??? I have thought about leaving but, I am a stay at home mom, I don't have a job my kids are my job. I am just terrified that I will end up a divorced single mother at 23. Who else would want that??? I'm only 23 years old this isn't the life I wanted or ever pictured at 23. This isn't a life at all, it's more like being treated like dog crap every day of the week. Has anyone else ever dealt with a partner or spouse acting like this??[/color][/font]
So where to begin. My husband and I have been in very stressful situation for a little over a month now. We have recieved custody of my stepson on top of our three children we have together. So now we have four children four and under. Within the past month our relationship has gone from great, he was my best friend, we could talk about anything, laugh and joke around, play video games after the kids were in bed and talk shiit, you know just have a good time and enjoy each other. To him calling me lazy, a piece of crap, telling me I'm freakin worthless. Telling me to just get the fudge out then. And even as far as last night when he said, "you are freakin crazy if you think i even freakin care about you anymore." All this coming from someone I thought would never do that to me. He talked to me like this last week, but later apologized and promised me he wouldn't again, just to turn around and do it again. I feel betrayed, pissed off, hurt, and stupid. I mean why would I have been so stupid to believe that he really meant it, because obviously he didn't if he just turned around and did it alll over again. Seriously, who treats thier wife like that, let alone does it in front of thier children??? I have thought about leaving but, I am a stay at home mom, I don't have a job my kids are my job. I am just terrified that I will end up a divorced single mother at 23. Who else would want that??? I'm only 23 years old this isn't the life I wanted or ever pictured at 23. This isn't a life at all, it's more like being treated like dog crap every day of the week. Has anyone else ever dealt with a partner or spouse acting like this??[/color][/font]