05-23-2012, 03:46 PM
(05-23-2012, 04:23 AM)DAMINK™ Wrote: You screwed up mate.
You will loose her i suspect and rightly so.
You betrayed her trust and for that i dont blame her to leave you.
What you need to do is learn from this.
I know its not true betrayal as in sleeping with someone else.
But you gave emotional connection which is very similar. You screwed up and its ok you feel bad and may loose your partner.
You did wrong IMO.
Learn from it mate.
Best you can possibly hope for is complete submission and then compromise.
Not what i would want from a relationship myself.
Sorry i sound harsh.
Its only my point of view and clearly not others.
WELL! This is damn right to the point! Lmfao. Like Damink said, you did wrong. You should have been the man (persay) and ask your girlfriend if you two were dating or not before doing sexually thing with this other girl. I consider nudity and sexual texting cheating. Cheating is cheating is cheating, there is no other definition. You in a ditch and I guess all you can really do is try to talk to your gf. If she leaves you, I can't blame her. You did fudge up pretty bad. I guess just wait it out or try to patch things up. If your girlfriend decides to stay with you, do NOT talk to the other girl anymore.