04-07-2012, 02:20 PM
(This post was last modified: 04-07-2012, 02:42 PM by Mysterious.)
To RDCA:
She can say that she doesnt want to be in a relationship right now. But, that's not the point. The fact that she would know that I like her and want to be more than friends would create an awkward situation and harm our currently good friendship.
Yes, but is that bad?
My narcissism is caused just because I think (and maybe I do) have a more mature understanding of the life and relationships around me. I think I usually handle serious things more maturely than others my age. I don't think it has anything to do with the girl.
I don't see my friends as true friends cause none of them are close to me, except this girl maybe. I know that they are not close, that's not just pessimism.
Also, I don't see what would be the outcome of telling a girl that I like her when I know for sure that she won't get into a relationship anytime soon?
Plus, as I said, I'm not sure if what I want is a relationship too. I'm just scared of getting into a 'relationships'. They are just too many expectations and formalities from what I've seen.
Quote:What is the worse she can say?
She can say that she doesnt want to be in a relationship right now. But, that's not the point. The fact that she would know that I like her and want to be more than friends would create an awkward situation and harm our currently good friendship.
Quote:You tell white lies to not only avoid drama,
but to not sever ties with the people you have a
daily basis with.
Yes, but is that bad?
Quote:These together is what causes the narcissism
My narcissism is caused just because I think (and maybe I do) have a more mature understanding of the life and relationships around me. I think I usually handle serious things more maturely than others my age. I don't think it has anything to do with the girl.
Quote:This is why you don't see your friends as friends
I don't see my friends as true friends cause none of them are close to me, except this girl maybe. I know that they are not close, that's not just pessimism.
Also, I don't see what would be the outcome of telling a girl that I like her when I know for sure that she won't get into a relationship anytime soon?
Plus, as I said, I'm not sure if what I want is a relationship too. I'm just scared of getting into a 'relationships'. They are just too many expectations and formalities from what I've seen.