03-28-2012, 09:44 PM
Hi Stormy, what can i tell you ! actually where do i start, losing someone is not the easiest thing in the world, specially after a difficult period and lots of sufferance ! you tend to feel guilty for not having done enough to help ! well it's all normal ! take it from someone like me, i lost my wife ( she was 47y old) in very similar circumstances , and i wont hide the fact that i felt exactly the same way you do ! but man, you have to face the truth, that is part of life, good moment and bad moments, there is nothing more you could have done and nothing you can do, time will heal every wound ! life must go on, your grandpa' will have to face it too, it's human behavior and moments of weakness , but they will all pass. take courage man, look forward, it is the hardest thing in life is to love someone that death will take away ! you have all my sympathy , time will heal, may sound nonsense for now, but it will.