03-21-2012, 07:23 PM
My mom has been stuck taking care of my grandmother that has alzheimers for over a year now and its very exhausting for her, not mention it stresses everyone else out at my home (sisters, etc.) My gradmother is essentially braindead and shits on the floor, has to be fed, etc. And my mom is always moody from taking care of her which in turn makes everyone in my household mad. Sometimes I find myself blaming my uncle that hung (killed) himself because he was living with my grandmother before she became ill. Then when he passed, the event made her ill and she was forced to move in with us. When i start thinking like that, I feel really shitty that the though even crossed my mind but its really getting to the point where my grandmother's presence is exhausting for all of us and we just dont have the ressources to put her away at the moment.