03-06-2012, 04:49 PM
I need some advice because Im not sure if my behaviour is emotionally healthy or even normal at the moment.
Bit of background info here, I haven't been in a real relationship for something like 8 years, I think my emotional development in this area is lacking to put it one way.
Over the last 3 months I developed a bit of an interest in a girl at work, a fact I wasn't able to hide as everyone in the office could tell. I recently found out that she does not like me, which is fair enough.
My problem is that there is another guy at work who seems to have quite a good relationship with her and every time I see him speaking to her I feel an intense jealousy and anger. I feel a lot of anger about the whole situation and have pretty much shut down towards her, I have barely said a word to her since I found out how she felt. Is this jealousy normal or is there a better way to deal with this?
Thanks
Bit of background info here, I haven't been in a real relationship for something like 8 years, I think my emotional development in this area is lacking to put it one way.
Over the last 3 months I developed a bit of an interest in a girl at work, a fact I wasn't able to hide as everyone in the office could tell. I recently found out that she does not like me, which is fair enough.
My problem is that there is another guy at work who seems to have quite a good relationship with her and every time I see him speaking to her I feel an intense jealousy and anger. I feel a lot of anger about the whole situation and have pretty much shut down towards her, I have barely said a word to her since I found out how she felt. Is this jealousy normal or is there a better way to deal with this?
Thanks