02-28-2012, 10:14 PM
(02-28-2012, 10:10 PM)AceInfinity Wrote: So? Muscle cramps make me tense up too but the fact is life moves on lol. Think about it this way, this is a fraction of your life here. And the only real difficulty there is, is building up the courage to go and talk to her, how can anything be that bad when you're actually talking to her if you've done it before? Is she some sort of alien that speaks in a different language and you need to learn how to speak it first (lol even though women are a tough nut to crack sometimes, I guarantee i've been around women that most people couldn't possibly understand as i've had trouble doing it as well).
If you can't talk to her just because you want to, but you can't, then make up an excuse to talk to her, by yourself, on your own. Make a conversation starter, and do NOT think too hard about it, or you'll miss the train; your opportunity.
"Just go with it" (Sidenote: you ever seen that movie? lol)
Do it, that's all i've got to say. How are you going to talk to women in the future if you can't practice doing it now
Oh you have it all wrong. I meant tensed up as in I have nothing to say, I'm just there looking dumbfounded , I want to talk to her but it's just this odd reason. I have no trouble talking to girls what-so-ever but that's why needed advice this time. I've never experienced how I react to this female.
I'm going to try my hardest to talk to her tomorrow, as you're right I only have a set time to live, and I'm just wasting away my life by wanting to talk to her. I guess I just can't take the feeling when I'm around her as it's just naturally new to me.
Thanks Ace, I really appreciate it. I'll make sure to talk to her soon.