02-12-2012, 08:38 PM
Well first test has come back possitive.
She is literally going to get another test now to make sure as i type this.
This will be my 6th child!
1 from a previous relationship and 4 from current wife but all planned apart from this one.
Now its not 100% yet until she gets home and does the next test.
But ultimately she will not really know until the second docs visit tomorrow and blood tests.
We did not plan this and can not really afford another child.
Thats before i consider the wifes mental stresses.
Currently we have 4 under 6 years old.
Scarey moments for me right now guys and gals i have to assure you of that.
Wife is crying her eyes out and stressed to the max.
As a man who DOES NOT believe in abortion this is not an option....
Oh boy these next few hrs and days are going to be quite stressful for me and the wife.
Not so much after advice more just posting how i feel right now i guess.
She is literally going to get another test now to make sure as i type this.
This will be my 6th child!
1 from a previous relationship and 4 from current wife but all planned apart from this one.
Now its not 100% yet until she gets home and does the next test.
But ultimately she will not really know until the second docs visit tomorrow and blood tests.
We did not plan this and can not really afford another child.
Thats before i consider the wifes mental stresses.
Currently we have 4 under 6 years old.
Scarey moments for me right now guys and gals i have to assure you of that.
Wife is crying her eyes out and stressed to the max.
As a man who DOES NOT believe in abortion this is not an option....
Oh boy these next few hrs and days are going to be quite stressful for me and the wife.
Not so much after advice more just posting how i feel right now i guess.