01-09-2012, 05:59 PM
First of all, congratulations on being open to seeking help. Time heals all wounds, which is a cool thing because it means it happens automatically. No work, yay!
Fortunately, teenage feelings change over time. It's part of all the genuine angst of getting to know yourself while growing up.
I am willing to bet a million dollars that if I met you, I'd find you to be a wonderful person. I am sure there are lots of people who genuinely and honestly think so.
The problem is that you don't.
Everything is about give and take. Physical needs, emotional needs, these needs are being fulfilled somewhere. These needs always exist. So whether your friends are doing it, or your family, or your significant other. You fulfill their emotional needs, and they fulfill yours. Something went wrong somewhere and you're not getting what you need. Figure out what it is you need, and then you'll be able to help yourself.
Fortunately, teenage feelings change over time. It's part of all the genuine angst of getting to know yourself while growing up.
I am willing to bet a million dollars that if I met you, I'd find you to be a wonderful person. I am sure there are lots of people who genuinely and honestly think so.
The problem is that you don't.
Everything is about give and take. Physical needs, emotional needs, these needs are being fulfilled somewhere. These needs always exist. So whether your friends are doing it, or your family, or your significant other. You fulfill their emotional needs, and they fulfill yours. Something went wrong somewhere and you're not getting what you need. Figure out what it is you need, and then you'll be able to help yourself.