I want what I can't have

[tomynho]

With girls, I really fall in love with the girls I know I can't get. I get close to them but for whatever reasons I know I cannot have them. Is there any way I can stop this or an explanation as to why it is happening?

I'm sorry if this sounds rude, although, how can you "fall in love" with anyone you don't know? It could be "lust", but love?

If it's looks-based, it's probably just "lust".

There's no official "definition" of "love" and it can be different, but in a nutshell, it's an emotion of strong affection and personal attachment.

"Personal" means there's personality included.

Also, stay positive. You can be anything you want to be and you can have anyone you want.