12-29-2011, 04:04 PM
You know you are completely entitled to your opinions here.
I know its your parents relationship/marriage and ultimately up to them to resolve.
But as a child of this relationship you are entitled to have your say and i recommend you do.
For a few reasons.
1) It might require a different view point for your parents to look at it and evaluate it.... ie your view point.
2) For your own piece of mind i think you should talk to each parent one at a time and tell them exactly how you feel. Because there may come a day when they do divorce and you dont want to feel like you did not try to help.
3) Because if a child of the parents can shine some maturity to the problem then perhaps they both will also.
Look i know its a hard road your going down mate. I am like many here who have a split family.
But dont be afraid to give your parents your view point. Even if it turns into an argument. ( you dont argue let them)
I know its your parents relationship/marriage and ultimately up to them to resolve.
But as a child of this relationship you are entitled to have your say and i recommend you do.
For a few reasons.
1) It might require a different view point for your parents to look at it and evaluate it.... ie your view point.
2) For your own piece of mind i think you should talk to each parent one at a time and tell them exactly how you feel. Because there may come a day when they do divorce and you dont want to feel like you did not try to help.
3) Because if a child of the parents can shine some maturity to the problem then perhaps they both will also.
Look i know its a hard road your going down mate. I am like many here who have a split family.
But dont be afraid to give your parents your view point. Even if it turns into an argument. ( you dont argue let them)