12-25-2011, 10:35 PM
(12-25-2011, 10:28 PM)King Wrote: Hey mate,
Firstly, welcome to SupportForums.
Now, it seems as though you've got a few problems here. I'm not sure which one you want dealt with, so I'll try to attack them all. First, it sounds like your dad's being eWhored and doesn't even know it. Maybe he legitimately has a cyber girlfriend, maybe not. Who knows. If you can cope with him leaving your mother and would rather have it that way, just you, your mother, and your sister, there's a couple of things. First, you're going to need to comfort your mother to get through it. She will be losing a husband to another woman and there's nothing worse than being cheated on. Secondly, you will need to help your sister. If she's as smart as you say she is, then she probably knows something is going on. As the man of the family, you will need to keep your sister and mother in good spirits. You might not be all that downtrodden by your father leaving, but your sister and mother quite possibly will be. Use your happiness about the situation for the better and try to spread it to them. How's your mother financially? Does she have a stable job?
Don't forget that during this tough time you're going to need to focus on yourself as well. You're still a victim here and it's important that you take care of your schooling, work, and personal life also.
All the best mate.
Absolutely a top shelf answer mate. I was going to reply to the OP but read your reply.
That sums it up perfectly mate. +1 for you.