12-02-2011, 10:06 PM
When it comes to situations like this, for me personally, I'd probably ask myself "Why not do it?" Yes, it could completely mess the friendship up but at the same time as long as the feeling is mutual it should work out. And if you really think about it, it's something that's inevitable to happen, so better sooner than later, right?
I've never been in a situation completely like that, but I will tell you that I'm extremely shy when it comes to being face to face. I never, EVER share anything with any of my real-life friends, unless it's someone special/really important to me, and even then it's over text/messaging of some sort. All I have to say is for once don't think about it, just go with it. As long as you're confident that she'll accept you for who you are and you open up to you, you should be able to pull it off.
I know that this is probably a lot easier said than done, because I'd be thinking the same thing if I were in you're position but unfortunately, there's no magically code or cheat book for how to magically solve problems, especially ones of this nature.
I've never been in a situation completely like that, but I will tell you that I'm extremely shy when it comes to being face to face. I never, EVER share anything with any of my real-life friends, unless it's someone special/really important to me, and even then it's over text/messaging of some sort. All I have to say is for once don't think about it, just go with it. As long as you're confident that she'll accept you for who you are and you open up to you, you should be able to pull it off.
I know that this is probably a lot easier said than done, because I'd be thinking the same thing if I were in you're position but unfortunately, there's no magically code or cheat book for how to magically solve problems, especially ones of this nature.