10-01-2011, 12:48 PM
i know how you feel man, i was once miserable too. i used to weigh 274 pounds.. i was very miserable. but i started running , thats it just running. i have lost 85 pounds. you dont have to go on a super diet, people usually just say diet and leave it at that. my "diet" consisted of eating less and running 15-30 minutes a day. sure it will take months but let me tell you at the end you'll be very proud with what you did and you can feel like you can accomplish anything. as for the girl, i do suggest you tell her before its too late, every chance you dont tell her its a chance she can meet someone else. you just got to be real with her.