09-12-2011, 06:04 PM
You're causing your own depression here, think of it this way, there's no real reason for you to be sad. You'll ruin your own opportunity by assuming too many things like this before you even find out if they are true or not. Everyone does that, they think of all the negatives first, and before too long after thinking of them too much it ruins their opportunity for something good because they always get down and depressed based on what they think (but can't prove).
My senses tell me that she is interested in you, but she can't tell you for some reason. Maybe she's afraid that you won't like her?
Do you realize that she could be thinking similar thoughts on the other end? That's one thing most people forget. She's human too, she will think of every reason to not try for something good for excuses she creates by herself because of doubt. Just because someone is beautiful doesn't mean that she doesn't have her bad times. Think about that as well.
Forget everything you're thinking about right now, and don't worry about it. You're sad for not getting an opportunity right away, when it's something you might have not had in the past. You should be happy that you could have the opportunity at something like this.
You don't know if she's starting to doubt whether you like her or not because of how much you've questioned her about her liking you. That's a possibility too. She said she liked you, now she says she doesn't no. She never said "No", so it doesn't mean she's not interested in you. If she didn't like you she would have told you no, trust me. If she said that though, she knows that it would get you away from her, which she might not want.
Hints:
-She said you know him, and that he doesn't date a lot. If that's you, then it's a hint that it probably is you. Girls will do that, they almost never tell you that it is you especially around your age group.
My outlook is that she's saying "I dont know" because you keep making her doubt the situation by questioning her. If I told a girl that I liked her, and she replied (exaggerating here) "Is this a joke?". Would that not deter you from her? Would you not think, "Oh... I guess she doesn't really like me".
Now you can apply this to the way she could possibly be feeling.
She said "I think I found him"
My suggestion is to not question the woman anymore. If you end up in a bad situation where she gets rid of you after a while, oh well. What was that? maybe 1-3 months of your lifetime? Or less?
My senses tell me that she is interested in you, but she can't tell you for some reason. Maybe she's afraid that you won't like her?
Do you realize that she could be thinking similar thoughts on the other end? That's one thing most people forget. She's human too, she will think of every reason to not try for something good for excuses she creates by herself because of doubt. Just because someone is beautiful doesn't mean that she doesn't have her bad times. Think about that as well.
Forget everything you're thinking about right now, and don't worry about it. You're sad for not getting an opportunity right away, when it's something you might have not had in the past. You should be happy that you could have the opportunity at something like this.
You don't know if she's starting to doubt whether you like her or not because of how much you've questioned her about her liking you. That's a possibility too. She said she liked you, now she says she doesn't no. She never said "No", so it doesn't mean she's not interested in you. If she didn't like you she would have told you no, trust me. If she said that though, she knows that it would get you away from her, which she might not want.
Hints:
-She said you know him, and that he doesn't date a lot. If that's you, then it's a hint that it probably is you. Girls will do that, they almost never tell you that it is you especially around your age group.
My outlook is that she's saying "I dont know" because you keep making her doubt the situation by questioning her. If I told a girl that I liked her, and she replied (exaggerating here) "Is this a joke?". Would that not deter you from her? Would you not think, "Oh... I guess she doesn't really like me".
Now you can apply this to the way she could possibly be feeling.
She said "I think I found him"
My suggestion is to not question the woman anymore. If you end up in a bad situation where she gets rid of you after a while, oh well. What was that? maybe 1-3 months of your lifetime? Or less?