08-21-2011, 03:52 PM
(08-20-2011, 01:51 PM)wale Wrote: I'd have to put it down to two reasons, I'm sure which.
1. You're afraid to be rejected, you may be insecure about something.
2. You think that by being quite you are developing a cool, calm, and collective persona that others will respect.
You don't need to be a social butterfly but you should practice your relationship skills, you may be good with computers but without being able to communicate to others that skill is wasted.
Good luck buddy!
"You think that by being quite you are developing a cool, calm, and collective persona that others will respect."
That's bad .. you should talk.
To the OP, I'll suggest you to be like you're with your friends. Just be yourself, and I believe that it will be a lot easier for you. Just say it to yourself, hey .. it doesn't matter what's gonna happen, I'll be myself, and I don't care what others will think about me. At least It will be a lot better than they're currently seeing you just as a random kid.