08-15-2011, 08:25 PM
Just think positive and don't be obsessed about what other people may think about you. I know it's hard, I'm also having troubles with it but it's getting better each day. Don't worry if you say something stupid, just joke about it. Smile and be polite, crack a joke or two and soon you'll find a good topic to talk about with someone.
Most of the conversation is done by your body language, not by words
, you just have to act confident. Just force yourself to do it, it'll be easier by time. Last year, I also had problems talking with people, even the ones I knew. I rarely was able to find a topic to talk about with them. During this year, I forced myself to talk with some people I rarely ever contact, it's still hard for me but it's a lot easier than last year was. Now I'm even able to start chatting to random people and find a topic to talk about in matter of seconds. Just force yourself to do it
People like confident people, or the ones who atleast look confident. Just be outgoing, it's hard for them too, maybe even harder than it is to you.
Most of the conversation is done by your body language, not by words
, you just have to act confident. Just force yourself to do it, it'll be easier by time. Last year, I also had problems talking with people, even the ones I knew. I rarely was able to find a topic to talk about with them. During this year, I forced myself to talk with some people I rarely ever contact, it's still hard for me but it's a lot easier than last year was. Now I'm even able to start chatting to random people and find a topic to talk about in matter of seconds. Just force yourself to do it People like confident people, or the ones who atleast look confident. Just be outgoing, it's hard for them too, maybe even harder than it is to you.