08-08-2011, 06:45 PM
Alright, for a while, 2 friends of this girl on my cross country team told me a girl liked me (their best friend). It was not long after that that the girl began to run beside me and a friend of mine. Mind you, she was pretty introverted (I am too so...). We never said much and I basically bombed it there by saying almost nothing.
After that, the XC season ended and it has been a year. I have had a relationship come and go. Now, XC is back into play and I am single. Her friends are making jokes about when I am going to talk to her and I think they are giving her a hard time about it, but I cannot be entirely sure.
Anyhow, I was trying to chat her up on Facebook and just get SOME conversation going (she became famous in my mind for giving one word answers which is different from all the girls I usually talk to). Recently, I tried again and she has yet to respond. Her friends are still rather....pestering. Is she ignoring me and her friends are just trying to mess with me? I mean, she is pretty good looking, but one of her friends is the gossipy type and is like a 9. Is she just messing with me because she can?
I have never dealt with a shy girl before...I am introverted (to some extent) and pretty laid back. It has never stopped me before....but now, I have no idea how to handle this. I want her, but it feels like I can never say the right thing or do the right thing. I have not even gotten her number. T.T
After that, the XC season ended and it has been a year. I have had a relationship come and go. Now, XC is back into play and I am single. Her friends are making jokes about when I am going to talk to her and I think they are giving her a hard time about it, but I cannot be entirely sure.
Anyhow, I was trying to chat her up on Facebook and just get SOME conversation going (she became famous in my mind for giving one word answers which is different from all the girls I usually talk to). Recently, I tried again and she has yet to respond. Her friends are still rather....pestering. Is she ignoring me and her friends are just trying to mess with me? I mean, she is pretty good looking, but one of her friends is the gossipy type and is like a 9. Is she just messing with me because she can?
I have never dealt with a shy girl before...I am introverted (to some extent) and pretty laid back. It has never stopped me before....but now, I have no idea how to handle this. I want her, but it feels like I can never say the right thing or do the right thing. I have not even gotten her number. T.T