08-07-2011, 05:49 PM
(08-07-2011, 05:39 PM)Love Wrote: finally a reply. alright, ill hold out for a day or two, thank you. finally someone with an answer thats not "dump the bitch" thank you..
lol I actually read through your post that's why. Don't think about it too much for the first day. Go do your favorite things to take your mind off it if needed. Play PS3, invite your friends over to watch a movie or something (guy friends only in case she gets the wrong idea with girls being at your house or you being around girls (assuming she even finds out)). Then on the second day just keep alert for any emails, text messages, or phone calls that you might expect from her. If nothing, then talk to her the next time you see her. You both said things that could have possibly hurt one another, so it wouldn't be completely unfair for you to start the "get back together" session. I would expect her to give in before you do though, she's just feeling at a loss without her friend, hopefully nothing happens, but don't even think about it buddy...
Trust me, i've learned with experience that girls like that who ditch you for another guy, and especially without telling you, they're just not worth it. I actually had one girlfriend back in high school flirting with me while she liked another guy, as soon as I was going out with her, she didn't "have time for me" to do anything. Then I found out from another friend of mine that she was watching the sunset with another guy when she apparently told me she was going out to dinner with her family.
Pretty tough stuff, and it's hard to get over someone, but if you can get into the right frame of mind you realise they aren't worth it.
In your case, don't assume anything. That's really bad to do, if things go on that gets people into a lot of trouble in relationships. More than 90% of the time, i've seen it. In the end you both need to talk, but you need to let it play out for a day or two so that she can settle down.