07-31-2011, 06:07 PM
I think it's just a thing that happens to pretty much everyone in middle/high school.
If you want my honest advice... stay in the friend zone, and be great friends. I know I've ruined a lot of friendships with girls, because I wanted to take things further and start a relationship, but they didn't want to. So I kept pushing at it and pushing at it, and in the end all it did was ruin a perfectly good friendship.
I'm not saying you shouldn't date any girls, but if they say that they just wanna be friends and not date, leave it at that. It sucks, I know, but later on down the road you'll be happy that you still have them as friends... and who knows, maybe they'll change their mind and want to move on to a relationship, you never know ;)
If you want my honest advice... stay in the friend zone, and be great friends. I know I've ruined a lot of friendships with girls, because I wanted to take things further and start a relationship, but they didn't want to. So I kept pushing at it and pushing at it, and in the end all it did was ruin a perfectly good friendship.
I'm not saying you shouldn't date any girls, but if they say that they just wanna be friends and not date, leave it at that. It sucks, I know, but later on down the road you'll be happy that you still have them as friends... and who knows, maybe they'll change their mind and want to move on to a relationship, you never know ;)