07-30-2011, 11:37 PM
20, still fairly young there. I'm not a really old wise guy, but I can say that I do know a bit about this kind of stuff. I'm currently 29, but I know i've been close with a few others that I couldn't go for, for various reasons too.
To say that you've lost all chances would only be telling yourself a lie. I don't blame you for that though, as usually when people screw up they assume the worst without thinking of any possibilities. If you feel that he's actually mad at you, or that he's just come to a misunderstanding, then maybe go make an apology by giving him some chocolates or something. It's a friendly act, and it gives you an excuse to talk to him on a friendlier level too. Even if it's just for 5-10 mins.
I'm not sure if you're thinking about telling him the way you really feel here, and I haven't considered that part yet, i'm only giving you advice working with the basics here first. Right now you feel that you've lost all chances. I'm not going to say it's right to keep trying, or that it's wrong, but I'm saying that you didn't lose all your chances.
I will say that there are probably/most likely more suited people out there for you. You just need to find that someone.
To say that you've lost all chances would only be telling yourself a lie. I don't blame you for that though, as usually when people screw up they assume the worst without thinking of any possibilities. If you feel that he's actually mad at you, or that he's just come to a misunderstanding, then maybe go make an apology by giving him some chocolates or something. It's a friendly act, and it gives you an excuse to talk to him on a friendlier level too. Even if it's just for 5-10 mins.
I'm not sure if you're thinking about telling him the way you really feel here, and I haven't considered that part yet, i'm only giving you advice working with the basics here first. Right now you feel that you've lost all chances. I'm not going to say it's right to keep trying, or that it's wrong, but I'm saying that you didn't lose all your chances.
I will say that there are probably/most likely more suited people out there for you. You just need to find that someone.