07-30-2011, 02:44 PM
(07-30-2011, 02:40 PM)FML brah Wrote: Hey Believable thanks for your HQ reply,
I know that my future will be bad if I can't tell her the truth and I should but in my perspective it's a big risk to throw this out there. I'm in a relationship for 2 years now and that's hard to just say 'you don't like, I'm leaving'. I hope she just realize that she should back off a little bit more and let me go do stuff, but the problem is; I wouldn't like it if she would be walking trough a club with her friends. I don't think any boy would like that. And we don't have the same friends (anymore) so we can't go together. I surely need to tell her to back off, sigh this is going to be hard.
Sometimes, if you can't just your partner, then that is what can build a bad relationship, I know it would be very hard, but if she doesn't let you do what you want and if you don't stop her from doing so, she'll end up controlling your life, and I'm sure you don't want that.
I realize it's hard to lose the ones you love, but you have to think of the bigger picture, think outside the box and look down the line a few years and realize what could happen if you two carry on that way.
I think you two should have a nice, mature and long conversation about everything and anything you two want to say, I feel it would be the best thing for this situation.