07-12-2011, 04:33 AM
*Although she knows I'm in this forum, she doesn't come here often... Posting as a guest 
So guys, I've been having a little crush on my friend for 2 years now... It started in the first week of my freshman year in college, I was totally PHYSICALLY attracted to her. That disappeared for a while though when I got to know her a little more because of that little thing called the "friend zone". I got over it eventually, we hung out like really good buddies (still do), have a couple of drinks sometimes, study together with other friends, and all that friend stuff. It was going great, until we started getting closer. I got a bit afraid that if and when I ultimately fall for her, and it doesn't work out between us, I'll lose her as a friend; I definitely do not want that to happen. So we grew a little distant until I got over the momentary infatuation and got to a comfortable distance with her, she was a bit disappointed, but it all went good; that was until one of my old-time friends started to make a move on her. It bothered me a lot, but of course I didn't show it to either of them. She responded good to his approaches at first but when I slowly started to (sort of) leave the two of them to themselves, she turned him down. So now I'm thinking, "it's my chance", I may never have another one to tell her. Part of me wants to play it safe and stay in the friend zone, but a huge part of me is a gambler (poker lol), and it's telling me to go all-in.
It's her birthday next week, and I'm thinking of something to give her, since I know for a fact that she loves good chocolate, that's what I'm giving her. But I'd like to hear your suggestions like what kind of chocolate, or how I'd give it to her, or what would I tell her, or how I'd tell her, etc...
Thanks guys!
So guys, I've been having a little crush on my friend for 2 years now... It started in the first week of my freshman year in college, I was totally PHYSICALLY attracted to her. That disappeared for a while though when I got to know her a little more because of that little thing called the "friend zone". I got over it eventually, we hung out like really good buddies (still do), have a couple of drinks sometimes, study together with other friends, and all that friend stuff. It was going great, until we started getting closer. I got a bit afraid that if and when I ultimately fall for her, and it doesn't work out between us, I'll lose her as a friend; I definitely do not want that to happen. So we grew a little distant until I got over the momentary infatuation and got to a comfortable distance with her, she was a bit disappointed, but it all went good; that was until one of my old-time friends started to make a move on her. It bothered me a lot, but of course I didn't show it to either of them. She responded good to his approaches at first but when I slowly started to (sort of) leave the two of them to themselves, she turned him down. So now I'm thinking, "it's my chance", I may never have another one to tell her. Part of me wants to play it safe and stay in the friend zone, but a huge part of me is a gambler (poker lol), and it's telling me to go all-in.
It's her birthday next week, and I'm thinking of something to give her, since I know for a fact that she loves good chocolate, that's what I'm giving her. But I'd like to hear your suggestions like what kind of chocolate, or how I'd give it to her, or what would I tell her, or how I'd tell her, etc...
Thanks guys!