I cheated.

[Justin]

That's the way abusers begin their debate about the "love me or not" thing. Love is a derogatory term. It's not just given to the person. And I could see how feelings could change after her commitment to him had brought them towards this predicament.

In another sense, if you were to turn that around, you would wonder "If the guy really loves the girl, then why is he off with some other girl?"

Can't always expect things to work out based on the word "Love" though.

Actually, you could expect things to work out based on "Love".
Everyone makes mistakes, and in this case, they love each other. And true lovers understand and work out problems and try to fix it.

That's my definition of loving someone.