07-09-2011, 03:42 AM
(07-09-2011, 03:07 AM)Chick-Fil-A Wrote: It was a great thing that you did tell her, and not keep secrets from her. I would sit down and have a deep chat with her about it.
Explain that you messed up, but you manned up and told her which most people wouldn't have done.
If she truly loves you, she'll understand and hopefully want to be with you. If not, accept your consequences but still ask to remain friends.
If you do break up, maybe chase girl #2 again.
That's the way abusers begin their debate about the "love me or not" thing. Love is a derogatory term. It's not just given to the person. And I could see how feelings could change after her commitment to him had brought them towards this predicament.
In another sense, if you were to turn that around, you would wonder "If the guy really loves the girl, then why is he off with some other girl?"
Can't always expect things to work out based on the word "Love" though.