Should this be bothering me?

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I would be bothered by it if this happened to someone that I was in a relationship with. Try to comfort her and protect her and be sure not to do anything that she isnt ready to do. Sadly there are assholes like her ex in this world and it is just something that people have to do their best to avoid and you can help her avoid him. Good luck with your problem and sorry that assholes like her ex really do exist.