07-03-2011, 08:58 AM
Look, I've had my (current?) girlfriend for a couple of months now. She's great, I do love her. Yeah yeah, it's impossible to tell after a couple of months; I'm no stranger to psychology.
There's another girl (let's call her girl 2) that I've been chasing after for a long time. She pretty much dropped off the course when I met this girl (my current girlfriend).
All has been swell, up until a week or so ago when I started talking to girl 2 more than usual. She just broke up with her boyfriend, and was flirting with me. Yeah I get it, she's lonely and she wants someone; that's exactly what I kept telling her.
I gave in.
We went out to see a movie last night. Afterwards, she stayed the night. We didn't have sex, but we made out a lot, and we slept together. We made a promise that we wouldn't talk about it ever again.
The next day I saw my girlfriend, and apart from the stinging sense of guilt, all went well. We hung out for the day, and I took her home.
The guilt finally kicked in. I had to tell her. She's pissed right now, and we've been talking about it for the past 4-ish hours.
I don't know why I did it. I can honestly say that no thought-out or logical decisions were made. It was all emotional.
I love my girlfriend, and she satisfies me in every way. I thought that she was enough for me, and I still feel the same.
I'm stuck. I was diagnosed with depression a few years ago, and this is the only thing that's really keeping me afloat. I want to fix this, and I'd do anything to do so.
Please, I want real advice. I don't want replies from a teenager that thinks his experience with 'the one' is enough to go by. Today isn't your time to shine. If you have a level-headed understanding of this stuff, please help out.
There's another girl (let's call her girl 2) that I've been chasing after for a long time. She pretty much dropped off the course when I met this girl (my current girlfriend).
All has been swell, up until a week or so ago when I started talking to girl 2 more than usual. She just broke up with her boyfriend, and was flirting with me. Yeah I get it, she's lonely and she wants someone; that's exactly what I kept telling her.
I gave in.
We went out to see a movie last night. Afterwards, she stayed the night. We didn't have sex, but we made out a lot, and we slept together. We made a promise that we wouldn't talk about it ever again.
The next day I saw my girlfriend, and apart from the stinging sense of guilt, all went well. We hung out for the day, and I took her home.
The guilt finally kicked in. I had to tell her. She's pissed right now, and we've been talking about it for the past 4-ish hours.
I don't know why I did it. I can honestly say that no thought-out or logical decisions were made. It was all emotional.
I love my girlfriend, and she satisfies me in every way. I thought that she was enough for me, and I still feel the same.
I'm stuck. I was diagnosed with depression a few years ago, and this is the only thing that's really keeping me afloat. I want to fix this, and I'd do anything to do so.
Please, I want real advice. I don't want replies from a teenager that thinks his experience with 'the one' is enough to go by. Today isn't your time to shine. If you have a level-headed understanding of this stuff, please help out.