06-24-2011, 04:46 AM
hey everyone!! i don't know why i feel scared at times- a slight fear . There's this frnd or rather class mate of mine. i am a kind of girl who doesn't like to throw nasty comments towards anyone coz i don't like to be the target of those myself & 2ndly, i can't form nasty & vague comments however hard i try.confrontation is my style but in my class things don't work out this way.
this "frnd" of mine, even though i don't say anything to her, rather i try to avoid her- but she still manages to throw a few comments my way. I don't want to spoil the friendly atmosphere so i don't say anything back bcoz if i do retaliate, it wud be one heated reaction as i can't smile & laugh as i say things that cut & burn & surely not to ppl who are my frnds.
i feel hurt & angry that when i am keeping my mouth shut then why doesn't she. My other frnds find her comments for me normal but when i joked with her once (& it was a joke in all honesty my friends), she retaliated rather nastly.What the hell is her problem?what should i do?
Should i be a sport & take her comments in jest? She says she is joking but if she is then why does she get offended when i do in return & i don't even say anything offending to her. i don't want to fight but i can't take anymore of her bizarre behaviour.help me friends. tell me what to do.i want to have a peaceful life.
this "frnd" of mine, even though i don't say anything to her, rather i try to avoid her- but she still manages to throw a few comments my way. I don't want to spoil the friendly atmosphere so i don't say anything back bcoz if i do retaliate, it wud be one heated reaction as i can't smile & laugh as i say things that cut & burn & surely not to ppl who are my frnds.
i feel hurt & angry that when i am keeping my mouth shut then why doesn't she. My other frnds find her comments for me normal but when i joked with her once (& it was a joke in all honesty my friends), she retaliated rather nastly.What the hell is her problem?what should i do?
Should i be a sport & take her comments in jest? She says she is joking but if she is then why does she get offended when i do in return & i don't even say anything offending to her. i don't want to fight but i can't take anymore of her bizarre behaviour.help me friends. tell me what to do.i want to have a peaceful life.