06-21-2011, 11:12 PM
I don't know if someone has posted this yet but.. you seem pretty worried.
You need to calm down bro. Just tell the mum that you are worried that her daughter (your gf) is going to find out, and that you want to cut it off between each other. Tell her that you love her daughter (so to speak) and you wouldn't want to hurt her especially by her finding out that you were seeing her mum.
Even though if you didn't want to hurt her, you wouldn't have started seeing the mum, but, maybe you really DON'T want to hurt her, and it is just your hormones causing you to act, umm.. lets say, 'wildly'.
Now, the situation with the dad.. I would be worried to but, do what you need to do with the mum to cut it off but as you do it, keep her happy.. because she could tell the ex-husband that you 'sexually assaulted' her, or even the police and that could lead to your gf finding out, and who knows what else.**
**Please note that I am not trying to scare you, I am just keeping it real.
The reason you want to keep the mum happy is because;
A. She could tell the husband you 'raped' her.
B. She could tell the daughter (your gf) that you are cheating with another woman.
C. She could tell the police.
Now, with result A., I wouldn't be to worried, because if they are split up, and he lives half way across the country, he probably wouldn't give a rats ass about the mum.
With B., you would lose the girl, and the mum. And the girl could tell her dad that you hurt her and he could.. well.. hunt you down (so to speak).
With C., the mum would probably make up a huge lie, press charges, get you put in jail, and the gf would find out, and then she could tell her father, and so on.
**Again, not, I am just keeping it real.
So, now, it is up to you. You can take my advice, or someone elses. But if you are to 'upset' with yourself to go back to your gf after leaving the mum, tell her you don't love her anymore and cut it off, and then tell the mum that you are uncomfortable with seeing her still.
Best of luck bud
You need to calm down bro. Just tell the mum that you are worried that her daughter (your gf) is going to find out, and that you want to cut it off between each other. Tell her that you love her daughter (so to speak) and you wouldn't want to hurt her especially by her finding out that you were seeing her mum.
Even though if you didn't want to hurt her, you wouldn't have started seeing the mum, but, maybe you really DON'T want to hurt her, and it is just your hormones causing you to act, umm.. lets say, 'wildly'.
Now, the situation with the dad.. I would be worried to but, do what you need to do with the mum to cut it off but as you do it, keep her happy.. because she could tell the ex-husband that you 'sexually assaulted' her, or even the police and that could lead to your gf finding out, and who knows what else.**
**Please note that I am not trying to scare you, I am just keeping it real.
The reason you want to keep the mum happy is because;
A. She could tell the husband you 'raped' her.
B. She could tell the daughter (your gf) that you are cheating with another woman.
C. She could tell the police.
Now, with result A., I wouldn't be to worried, because if they are split up, and he lives half way across the country, he probably wouldn't give a rats ass about the mum.
With B., you would lose the girl, and the mum. And the girl could tell her dad that you hurt her and he could.. well.. hunt you down (so to speak).
With C., the mum would probably make up a huge lie, press charges, get you put in jail, and the gf would find out, and then she could tell her father, and so on.
**Again, not, I am just keeping it real.
So, now, it is up to you. You can take my advice, or someone elses. But if you are to 'upset' with yourself to go back to your gf after leaving the mum, tell her you don't love her anymore and cut it off, and then tell the mum that you are uncomfortable with seeing her still.
Best of luck bud
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