06-19-2011, 03:06 PM
(This post was last modified: 06-19-2011, 03:12 PM by Brandenx781.)
Greetings.
You cannot keep a relationship a secret, no matter how hard you try. Trust me, it will come out sooner or later so keeping your relationship a secret is also out of the question.
Well you can't really blame her. You suddenly broke up with her through text which I laugh at you for. But give her some time. It's not like she's going to get over the fact that you guys just broke up that easily. She could had had a lot of feelings for you, and you basically broke that for her.
Like my prodigy said, go talk to your ex about it and just say that the relationship is over. Well, don't be rude like how I kinda implied it, but just go over an talk about you both, and why the relationship didn't work out, because that she wouldn't do anything. Actually this is a fault on both parts.
If she hates you just because you were smoking, then go and talk to her mom. I know that if I was a dad and my daughter was with someone who was smoking, then I would stab him in the eye. You know how overprotective parents can be of their children. Smoking is a horrible thing to see especially if your daughter was dating a smoker. Would you trust her alone with him? I think not. That is why she hates you a lot.
At this point, I think it is a good attempt to go and talk to her mom alone. Say that you didn't mean for her to see that you were smoking. And basically change your attitude to a polite gentlemen especially when handling a parent. Say that you're sorry that she witnessed it, and explain to her that you would never bring her daughter under the influence. Basically explain that you wouldn't smoke or do anything stupid when with her daughter, and hope that she believes you, and make sure if she does, that you keep your end of the bargain.
If her mom does hate you still after you explained it to her, then prove it to her daughter that you are a sweet guy. Basically bring flowers over and give it to her daughter and stuff. Maybe talking with the dad may help also, since her mom probably told the dad already and now he is aware.
This part is where your common sense is. Everyone says that girls find out everything, and it's true that they do. And shut up about being a player, because you obviously can change that. I don't see what the problem really is with telling other people It seems that you both really do care what other people think about you guys together. Who cares if your ex finds out, it's not like you're going to get back with her. If she does anything to ruin your relationship, then go up and confront her like a real man, and say what's on your mind and stuff.
If you do decide to mess around with a girl on accident then just tell the girl who you're messing around that you are changing your ways and that you are not a player anymore, because you want to treat a girl right this time. It's called using some common sense. Would you rather mess around with different girls that don't even have any feelings about you or would you rather mess around with one girl where you can show your passion and deep love in? Your choice as I cannot choose your path. Trust me, she will find out if you do decide to mess with other girls. Think about changing your player interface.
So you're only 15 and you've had sex already?
I can't say that I'm surprised.
Let's just say that if you continue the relationship as a secret, then it won't work out. But if you allow this relationship to be open, then it would work out to a point.
You broke up with your ex just because you guys didn't do anything. This means that she could be insecure about stuff, or maybe she's not ready. You said you were 15, so she probably is too. I think she would had been a great girl to be with. And next time, be a man about it and break up with her in person.
To be honest, if the girl you are in love with right now is near your age and already having sex then I think she's a total slut; sorry to burst your bubble.
GoodLuck!
- Brandenx781
You cannot keep a relationship a secret, no matter how hard you try. Trust me, it will come out sooner or later so keeping your relationship a secret is also out of the question.
Quote:My physco ex= still in love
Well you can't really blame her. You suddenly broke up with her through text which I laugh at you for. But give her some time. It's not like she's going to get over the fact that you guys just broke up that easily. She could had had a lot of feelings for you, and you basically broke that for her.
Like my prodigy said, go talk to your ex about it and just say that the relationship is over. Well, don't be rude like how I kinda implied it, but just go over an talk about you both, and why the relationship didn't work out, because that she wouldn't do anything. Actually this is a fault on both parts.
Quote:Her mom HATES me like with a passion
If she hates you just because you were smoking, then go and talk to her mom. I know that if I was a dad and my daughter was with someone who was smoking, then I would stab him in the eye. You know how overprotective parents can be of their children. Smoking is a horrible thing to see especially if your daughter was dating a smoker. Would you trust her alone with him? I think not. That is why she hates you a lot.
At this point, I think it is a good attempt to go and talk to her mom alone. Say that you didn't mean for her to see that you were smoking. And basically change your attitude to a polite gentlemen especially when handling a parent. Say that you're sorry that she witnessed it, and explain to her that you would never bring her daughter under the influence. Basically explain that you wouldn't smoke or do anything stupid when with her daughter, and hope that she believes you, and make sure if she does, that you keep your end of the bargain.
If her mom does hate you still after you explained it to her, then prove it to her daughter that you are a sweet guy. Basically bring flowers over and give it to her daughter and stuff. Maybe talking with the dad may help also, since her mom probably told the dad already and now he is aware.
This part is where your common sense is. Everyone says that girls find out everything, and it's true that they do. And shut up about being a player, because you obviously can change that. I don't see what the problem really is with telling other people It seems that you both really do care what other people think about you guys together. Who cares if your ex finds out, it's not like you're going to get back with her. If she does anything to ruin your relationship, then go up and confront her like a real man, and say what's on your mind and stuff.
If you do decide to mess around with a girl on accident then just tell the girl who you're messing around that you are changing your ways and that you are not a player anymore, because you want to treat a girl right this time. It's called using some common sense. Would you rather mess around with different girls that don't even have any feelings about you or would you rather mess around with one girl where you can show your passion and deep love in? Your choice as I cannot choose your path. Trust me, she will find out if you do decide to mess with other girls. Think about changing your player interface.
So you're only 15 and you've had sex already?
I can't say that I'm surprised.
Quote:Will this relationship work out
Let's just say that if you continue the relationship as a secret, then it won't work out. But if you allow this relationship to be open, then it would work out to a point.
You broke up with your ex just because you guys didn't do anything. This means that she could be insecure about stuff, or maybe she's not ready. You said you were 15, so she probably is too. I think she would had been a great girl to be with. And next time, be a man about it and break up with her in person.
To be honest, if the girl you are in love with right now is near your age and already having sex then I think she's a total slut; sorry to burst your bubble.
GoodLuck!
- Brandenx781
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