06-14-2011, 11:59 PM
well first thing to this thread is please for the love of god next time u type up 3 or 4 paragraphs please space them... this took me forever to read because the text are not spaced -.-
1. it sound's to me like he is a little socially awkward? or doesn't feel comfortable i am the same way..
I think the best thing to do since u said he acts effeminate is to confront him i mean he shouldn't take it offensively (just say it in a nice way.)
2.You said u have tried this before, Sometimes its harder for people to breack into new things? i guess... i mean it can all depend on the way he grew up also... he just seems really loving and i honestly do think he loves you but sometimes u just have to work with him pace by pace...
3.Try not to let ecother's problems get between ecother (its a bad choice) but also try to help him overcome his shyness or whatever he has just talk to him if not take this further and go to an actually relationship therapist (this will work)
if u need anything else just PM me im sorry if i didn't put much detail into the reply its late at night and i skimmed thru this because it was hurting my eyes.
1. it sound's to me like he is a little socially awkward? or doesn't feel comfortable i am the same way..
I think the best thing to do since u said he acts effeminate is to confront him i mean he shouldn't take it offensively (just say it in a nice way.)
2.You said u have tried this before, Sometimes its harder for people to breack into new things? i guess... i mean it can all depend on the way he grew up also... he just seems really loving and i honestly do think he loves you but sometimes u just have to work with him pace by pace...
3.Try not to let ecother's problems get between ecother (its a bad choice) but also try to help him overcome his shyness or whatever he has just talk to him if not take this further and go to an actually relationship therapist (this will work)
if u need anything else just PM me im sorry if i didn't put much detail into the reply its late at night and i skimmed thru this because it was hurting my eyes.